Christ in Yan

yay! i've been transferred over to Nee Soon South CC. and this meant that i dont have to wake up 15min earlier(every min of sleep is precious to me), dont have to waste money on taking bus to Chong Pang. rmb? ADULT FARE now! =(

trasferring over is a good thing, less people and can ''rest'' more. we just sell our service by sleeping! haha. good thing ying is there so we can talk alot. not that super boring.
but leaving Chong Pang is quite sad. only that few days the auntie working there is so good to me. and gotta know truddy who can share alot of things with me. anyway, i'll go back find them if i have the time! haha.

anyway, NSS is good, cos i can catch my nap. =p

btw, we met a ''weird'' person today. hahaha!! laughed off my top.

watched service at home tonight. i think it's overall very good. but frankly i didn't catch all the points. ha.

i just recalled something which i wanna post so long ago. now since i've got the time, i shall post it.

i seriously cant tahan people who're super taking things, or should i say the people around him/her for granted. i admit i do, but thats in the past. i'm still learning to cherish everyone i've got ard me now. as i said, learning. so i'm not perfect too.

one very important point is, always listen to others. not, ME, MYSELF and I all the time.
every decision is made by him/herself. not even caring about others opinion. just going ahead with whats pleasing to self than to others. sometimes, just listen and care a little bit more for others. i'm sure it wont cause alot of harm to you?
for eg, in one phone call conversation, it's all about, ''you know..? today I so pissed with blah blah blah.. , I so unhappy with blah blah blah.. '' I I I I I I! never a, ''how do u think? or, what you think i should do to solve this problem?''
even if he/she asked, no matter what the ''friend'' ans, he/she treats it as wind. giving bad comments or unhappy comments about the comments from the ''friend''.
reason why i '' '' the word friend in this case is because, i felt that he/she didn't even treat the ''friend'' as a friend.

TO ME, a friend will be someone you'll share problems with and he/she will listen to you TOO. thats the super basic.

let's name the he/she A.
and the friend B.
B who's busy at the moment have to listen to A complain. even as B is said B is busy, A will still demand for a listening ear for complaining.
personally, i'm ok with my friends calling to me share their happiness or sorrows, or something urgent when i'm having my meals. i can stop eating and listen. but call just to complain to me? perhaps when i'm free i'll entertain and listen, and when i alrdy said i'm busy, still insist on continuing and dont allow me to hang up the phone, is really too much.
we should understand the fact that time is precious. not everyone is so free to listen to little complaints. ok?

dont wanna talk about this further.

lets talk about something else.
i feel that sometimes we have to be realistic and true to yourself. at least to YOURSELF. face the reality. we just cant force some stuffs to come our way.
it doesn't mean that what u dont have others cant have too.
everyone's life is different. why pour wet blanket on your dear friend rather than supporting him/her decision?
there's no need for comparision between one another, support one another instead. it'll play a part in making the relationship even better.

this is all about the mindset and character. i dont believe we cant change. cos i've changed my mindset and character, to not being so narrow minded and even so cautious of close friends around me, always thinking there might be harm coming somewhere from him/her.
i think, if the change is for the better, great! cos at least you're stepping out from the kiddy thinkings into a more mature thinking. little conflicts can be avoided, if one just give in. because of a trival matter you're unhappy with the person, spoiling the friendship is really something i wont want to do now. cos i've alrdy realise how important friendship is.

i shall stop here and continue again when my brain is working and able to help me recall what to blog. brain's pretty dead now. and eyes are tired.

nites people.

*above may not be applicable to you. but they're just my thoughts. RESPECT, one another's thinking. not everyone thinks like you do. give everyone the FREEDOM to think and voice out their opinions. sometimes they do help.

posted by Yan @ 2/25/2006 12:11:00 AM